Perhaps the habit of drawing things and activities and people to myself
reflects a search for belonging.
John O'Donohue wrote in 'For Belonging'
"May you listen to your longing to be free.
May the frames of your belonging be generous enough for your dreams.
May you arise ach day with a voice of blessing in your heart.
May you find a harmony between your soul and your life.
May the sanctuary of your soul never become haunted.
May you know the eternal longing that lives at the heart of time.
May there be kindness in your gaze when you look within.
May you never place walls between the light and yourself.
May you allow the wild beauty of the invisible world
to gather you, mind you and embrace you in belonging."